My friend Amy gave me this advice yesterday re: women:
Don’t listen to her complain about other men. Don’t be too quick to be a girlfriend. If a woman is into a guy, she doesn’t treat him like a girlfriend. If she starts, don’t let her. Even if it doesn’t turn into anything, at least you’ve saved yourself having to listen to complaining.
This is so very true. I realized how true last night when out with a girly friend. This is a really beautiful and fun girl who I is completely awesome(incidentally, my family ADORES her).
And I am soooo her galpal. I got to hear last night all about this fella that she’s been on four dates with…later in the night she kept asking me if it would be inappropriate to call him up (we were not terribly far from his house) and have a late-night popin booty call.
This is not how girls who are into you talk. Fo’ sho’.
Not saying I’m chasing, but it’s a good example, dig?